"When one door of happiness closes, another opens;
but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us."
Helen Keller

Wednesday, January 5, 2011

Safety with Brycen

As I've shared before, I think Brycen is at risk for wandering away from us in the future. Right now he is very hesitant about his surroundings and tends to stay near us, but I know that day will come when he sees something he likes and will take off for it...maybe even without us knowing.
After talking to his Case Manager in October about Brycen's lack of awareness of safety issues and such, we decided on a safety goal for this year that will work on Brycen learning how to be safe in the community. This goal included us ordering a Medical ID bracelet for him and helping him get used to wearing it every day...just in case.
As I was googling these bracelets, I found some awesome sports bands that look very similar to a fun watch but just has a metal plate with the information on it instead of the clock. What was even better is I found one with trains on it! I know how Brycen is with wearing anything extra on his body so I had to find a way to make this appealing to him and we know anything train gets him very excited! I also ordered back-up bands with trucks and another soccer ball one in case he breaks the first one or just to change it up a little once in awhile. The metal plate just slides off of the train band and then onto the back-ups as needed.
I feel like we have made some fabulous strides these last few months in Brycen's care and needs. We are advancing towards looking into the future and keeping our heads held high as we fight this battle and help him as best as we can!

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Autism and Our Family

"Autism"----It's one word that can change the life of a child and family in so many ways. Autism Spectrum Disorders are being diagnosed at a rate of 1 in 68 children currently. If you do not already know someone that has been diagnosed, the statistics say it won't be long before you do.

Our son developed typically until around the time he turned 2 years old. We heard words...we saw him play with other kids...we watched as he played with his toys appropriately...we made eye contact with him...overall we understood his wants and needs. In a matter of a few months, that was all taken away from him. He began lining up toys, lost all of his words and signs except for one word "ball", ignored other kids, could not sleep through the night, lost eye contact and the ability to follow directions, and he had no way of letting us know what he wanted or how he felt. It was heartbreaking to see something happening to our child that we couldn't stop!

Brycen began receiving home therapy 1-2 times per month for about 6 months before we realized it wasn't just developmental delays. We knew it was Autism...we just didn't want to say it outloud to anyone. He was officially diagnosed with Autism (classic form and regressive), as well as Mental Retardation in August 2009 by the University of Iowa Hospitals and Clinics.

We continue to learn as we make our way through this journey with Brycen and we will continue to share this journey with you on this blog! The blog has been a great therapy for us to be able to vent our frustrations and struggles with accepting that we have a child with special needs, while sharing how blessed we are to have a child teach us what life truly means. It has also been a great way to inform others of his progress and changes over the last couple of years.

Thank you for your support of Brycen and our family! We hope you are able to learn something through this blog no matter if you are a parent of a child with special needs or a neurotypical child, a teacher or therapist, a family member, or just someone that is interested in the journey that a family goes on as they learn their child is battling a life-long disorder.