"When one door of happiness closes, another opens;
but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us."
Helen Keller

Friday, July 30, 2010

The choice to look for more answers

One year ago, we were devastated and attempting to accept the Autistic Disorder diagnosis that was given to Brycen. Today, we are finding things to be so much easier to accept and time has given us the chance to research and learn more about Autism and how it affects our family.

A meeting for work this morning gave me the chance to meet a very knowledgeable staff that pointed me in the direction of Fragile X syndrome. This is an inherited disorder that affects children in many ways similar to Autism and a good chunk of children may actually be diagnosed with Autism before doctors realize it is actually Fragile X. "Fragile X is the most common cause of Autism and Autistic-like behaviors." Fragile X is the only area on the spectrum that has a known cause and is genetic. Mike and I discussed getting Brycen tested for this as soon as possible as it would help us narrow down where he falls on the spectrum. If the test is negative, then at least we have ruled it out...but if the test is positive, then we know where we need to focus, the reason for the autism, and since it is genetic, it gives our family a chance to find out if they are carriers, as well as Aubree.

The testing is very simple and I have made a call to U of I to determine if we need to go there for it or if we can go back to CHSC in Fort Dodge to have the DNA testing done. I have attached a link to the National Fragile X Foundation page so you can read for yourself about Fragile X. It is actually very interesting! We'll keep you updated on what we find out!

http://www.fragilex.org/html/what.htm

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Autism and Our Family

"Autism"----It's one word that can change the life of a child and family in so many ways. Autism Spectrum Disorders are being diagnosed at a rate of 1 in 68 children currently. If you do not already know someone that has been diagnosed, the statistics say it won't be long before you do.

Our son developed typically until around the time he turned 2 years old. We heard words...we saw him play with other kids...we watched as he played with his toys appropriately...we made eye contact with him...overall we understood his wants and needs. In a matter of a few months, that was all taken away from him. He began lining up toys, lost all of his words and signs except for one word "ball", ignored other kids, could not sleep through the night, lost eye contact and the ability to follow directions, and he had no way of letting us know what he wanted or how he felt. It was heartbreaking to see something happening to our child that we couldn't stop!

Brycen began receiving home therapy 1-2 times per month for about 6 months before we realized it wasn't just developmental delays. We knew it was Autism...we just didn't want to say it outloud to anyone. He was officially diagnosed with Autism (classic form and regressive), as well as Mental Retardation in August 2009 by the University of Iowa Hospitals and Clinics.

We continue to learn as we make our way through this journey with Brycen and we will continue to share this journey with you on this blog! The blog has been a great therapy for us to be able to vent our frustrations and struggles with accepting that we have a child with special needs, while sharing how blessed we are to have a child teach us what life truly means. It has also been a great way to inform others of his progress and changes over the last couple of years.

Thank you for your support of Brycen and our family! We hope you are able to learn something through this blog no matter if you are a parent of a child with special needs or a neurotypical child, a teacher or therapist, a family member, or just someone that is interested in the journey that a family goes on as they learn their child is battling a life-long disorder.