"When one door of happiness closes, another opens;
but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us."
Helen Keller

Thursday, August 11, 2011

More of the ABC's!


 A couple weeks ago,  we noticed that Brycen was really starting to comprehend the order of the ABC's.  He is still doing awesome at attempting to verbalize each letter, as well as he now recognizes both upper and lower case letters.  He can trace all of the letters and write the letters in his name somewhat legibly with multiple verbal prompts (but without tracing needed).  We are working towards him writing his first name completely independently and I am confident he will succeed at this shortly after school starts next week.  My mom was working on verbalizing the ABC's with him recently and found that he actually does have the order memorized like other kids his age.  She would just ask him what comes next and he would pause before verbalizing the correct one.
Today, while Mike was home on lunch break and making his sandwiches, he told me to look at Brycen by the fridge.  Above is what we found him doing...slowly but surely he put the ABC's in order with the fridge magnets.  We are so proud of him and all of his progress over these last few months!  While we aren't hearing much more verbally from him, we are noticing so much more through his actions and responses.  He is taking in so much from his interactions with others and showing us that he is learning through moments like this.  He works so hard every single day to do these things, and sometimes we don't give him enough credit for what he really can do by himself. 


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Autism and Our Family

"Autism"----It's one word that can change the life of a child and family in so many ways. Autism Spectrum Disorders are being diagnosed at a rate of 1 in 68 children currently. If you do not already know someone that has been diagnosed, the statistics say it won't be long before you do.

Our son developed typically until around the time he turned 2 years old. We heard words...we saw him play with other kids...we watched as he played with his toys appropriately...we made eye contact with him...overall we understood his wants and needs. In a matter of a few months, that was all taken away from him. He began lining up toys, lost all of his words and signs except for one word "ball", ignored other kids, could not sleep through the night, lost eye contact and the ability to follow directions, and he had no way of letting us know what he wanted or how he felt. It was heartbreaking to see something happening to our child that we couldn't stop!

Brycen began receiving home therapy 1-2 times per month for about 6 months before we realized it wasn't just developmental delays. We knew it was Autism...we just didn't want to say it outloud to anyone. He was officially diagnosed with Autism (classic form and regressive), as well as Mental Retardation in August 2009 by the University of Iowa Hospitals and Clinics.

We continue to learn as we make our way through this journey with Brycen and we will continue to share this journey with you on this blog! The blog has been a great therapy for us to be able to vent our frustrations and struggles with accepting that we have a child with special needs, while sharing how blessed we are to have a child teach us what life truly means. It has also been a great way to inform others of his progress and changes over the last couple of years.

Thank you for your support of Brycen and our family! We hope you are able to learn something through this blog no matter if you are a parent of a child with special needs or a neurotypical child, a teacher or therapist, a family member, or just someone that is interested in the journey that a family goes on as they learn their child is battling a life-long disorder.